Two Sundays ago, after church, I took the kids to the mall to get them new shoes. While we were there these two teenaged girls were causing a huge scene. Screaming–I’m talking blood curdling horror movie audition screams–running around the top level at top speed, at one point almost knocking me to the ground. Meaning, I felt the wind as she ran by, and if I’d have taken half a step to the side the moment before, I’d have been toast.
After this happened, we stopped and stared at them until they were out of sight. When I looked at the kids, they had saucer eyes and their mouths were hanging open.
Sadie said “Wow. Mama, when I’m a teenager I promise I’ll NEVER act like that.” Then God stepped in and turned it into a valuable teaching lesson.
We stopped and sat on a nearby bench and talked. I said, “You guys have to understand something. Between all we do
at our church, in school, and in our community, we know a LOT of people. There are many people who know your mama and papa, but who you don’t know. This is important because no matter where you are, no matter what time it is, there is most likely going to be someone who can see what you are doing. People will always be watching your behavior, and if they know us, it will always get back to me or papa. Do you understand?”
They both did. Then I said, “In fact, I’d bet you that right now there are at least two people in this mall right now that we know. We may not see them while we’re here, but I guarantee they’re here.”
They nodded again, we made huggsies, then were on our way.
Not three minutes later–no exaggeration–we ran into two of their friends from church who were there with their grandma. We said hi, and as they walked away I reminded them of what we had just talked about, and what just happened.
The looks on their faces were priceless.
They got it.